Author Archives: Nancy Pesce


For a multitude of reasons, caregivers may want to care for their elderly loved ones at home.   As long as the situation presents itself as safe for everyone who will be involved, keeping aging parents at home is a very generous and wonderful thing to do.  However, caring for a loved one can also be very overwhelming if you’re not prepared.  Looking after an elderly person is probably one of the most demanding and hardest job you will ever have, especially if you assume those responsibilities on your own.  It is extremely important that the caregiver pays attention to their own health needs as well.  Middlebury Convalescent Home offers a few suggestions to help with caregiving at home.

  • It’s important to know and understand how much care the individual will need.  Assess the daily, weekly, and even monthly tasks that are required.  Doing so will help put into perspective how much care will be necessary.
  • Once you analyze how much care is needed, be truthful about whether or not you can provide the proper care without jeopardizing your own health.
  • Seek help with caregiving.  Finding help takes a great deal of time and effort.  You need to be patient and most times you need to be creative. 
  • Find opportunities for assistance with adult day programs or hiring in-home caregivers through homecare agencies. 
  • Go to your local senior center to find a volunteer to be a companion. 
  • Most skilled nursing facilities offer respite care services. 
  • To help with meals, sign up for a meal delivery like Meals on Wheels. 
  • If you have siblings and/or an extended family, ask to share some of the responsibilities.  If you don’t ask for help, it will be assumed that you don’t need any help.  If you burn out or develop a health issue, you will not be able to care for anyone.

No suggestion will be ideal.  However, when an opportunity to get any type of assistance comes your way, take advantage of it.


In this news article we will briefly explain the difference between custodial care versus skilled care.  Typically, either service is for a recipient who needs someone to help them with their physical and/or emotional needs for an extended period of time.  These services can take place at home, assisted living, or in a skilled nursing… Continue Reading

How to Talk to Elderly People

At times it can be challenging to talk to an elderly person.  Before trying to come up with any interesting topics to discuss, you should learn how to communicate with the senior population.  Here are some pointers. Give them your undivided attention and allow them to speak without interruption and at their own pace.  Be… Continue Reading

Myths vs Facts

Skilled nursing facilities (SNFs) have come a very long way since their inception. Sometime in the 17th century they were called “poorhouses” or “almshouses”.  Health care has highly progressed through the years in terms of clinical practices, resident rights, quality improvement, and the overall approach to the needs and wants of residents and patients. Regrettably, even… Continue Reading

MCH made the top 10 Best nursing homes in Connecticut!!!!

“U.S. News & World Report has released its latest ratings identifying top nursing homes. The ratings for 2018-19 include 71 nursing homes in Connecticut designated as a U.S. News “best nursing home.” The homes are given an overall rating as well as a short-stay rehabilitation rating, a new addition to the ratings now in their ninth year.… Continue Reading

Staying Socially Connected

In keeping with our safety tips and how to take good care of your loved one while still living at home, this article will focus on additional pointers to help your parent.  As our seniors get older, many cannot cope with their losses, and therefore become isolated and can suffer from depression.  The following is… Continue Reading

Safety Tips From MCH

Most senior citizens want to live out their lives in their own home environment without “being a burden to their children”.  Planning ahead to help your parent stay home will greatly increase their chances.  As a prerequisite to my previous news feed “Preparing a Parent for Long Term Placement”, this article will provide our community… Continue Reading

Antibiotic Stewardship

At Middlebury Convalescent Home we are always striving to educate our families and residents on a variety of matters.  One of the many issues we continually try to stress is the overuse of antibiotics.  Improving antibiotic use starts with you!  Using antibiotics wisely is the best way to ensure they work for future bacterial illnesses… Continue Reading

Waiting List Information

Waiting List Information Connecticut law requires skilled nursing facilities to maintain a waiting list for admission.  Homes are required to keep waiting lists and must admit applicants in the order in which they appear, unless the law expressly allows otherwise.  Some of the several exceptions to the waiting list law include: Short term rehab (less… Continue Reading